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Early Black Friday Ruining Holiday Traditions?

Early Black Friday Ruining Holiday Traditions?

Ok, I know I wrote about this last year, but it’s worth pulling out of the archives. Once again, I’m mad that Black Friday is actually beginning on Turkey Thursday. I don’t want to head out on Thursday night because Target opens at 9:00 p.m. I want to follow the traditions of years past and have the one day a year that I take for myself and thoroughly enjoy.

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Originally run on 11/16/2011:

I love the day after Thanksgiving. Everyone in my family has developed a routine that we all thoroughly enjoy.  My husband and brother-in-law participate in the annual “Turkey Bowl” where all the guys from high school get together for a morning of playing football (and yes, at least one person a year ends up in the ER). My boys get to spend the morning at their Grandma’s house, and my dad swaps the lawnmower in the garage for the snow blower and preps for the upcoming winter.  But the women, we assume the role of hunters and gatherers. We brave the crowds and head out for Black Friday.

Preparation begins Thanksgiving morning. While the kids are watching the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day parade and the turkey is in the oven, we are browsing the newspaper. Then after dinner and dessert, we start making Christmas lists. Later that evening once all the kids are asleep, the real prep begins. We coordinate lists, figure out where we need to go when, synchronize alarm clocks and set out our clothes for the next day. Black Friday is the one day of the year that my kids’ early morning wake ups actually come in handy.

But this year, I’m starting to get annoyed by Black Friday…because it’s already started. Commercials and websites are telling me sales have already started or will be starting at 10 p.m. Thanksgiving night. I’m starting to fear that we’ll miss all the good deals if we don’t head out as soon as dinner is over! We don’t have many traditions in our family, and while this may seem like a silly one, it’s not just about the shopping (I actually do a lot of holiday shopping on Etsy). It’s about bonding with my mom and sister (and now my 11 year old cousin), sharing a sense of camaraderie with all the other shoppers and spending a nice day without kids. I know the economy is bad and retailers are trying to get all the money they can, but I’m not happy about it. Not one bit.



  1. Melissa Dahl November 20, 2012 at 8:47 pm

    Hi there,

    I’m a writer for working on a story on the psychology of Black Friday. I LOVE this post and would love to hear more about your thoughts. Please email me at – I’d love to chat with you today!

    Melissa Dahl

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  3. Tim F November 22, 2012 at 4:41 am

    Hope you have fun racing for your Made In China garbage – I find it quite humorous watching your antics as you and others of your ilk compete for stuff you could find next year at a garage sale or Thrift Store for pennies on the dollar.

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  5. Rick November 23, 2012 at 9:02 am

    You are a nutcase, a crack pot. Folks like you trample to death minimal wage security guard at Walmart. (See last’s years Black Friday Death)

    In your drive to get the “Door Buster ” deals you abandon all common sense, pushing and shoving your way through the lines without any regard to anyone else, including store employees.

    Anyone that drags an 11 year old child out of bed before 4AM to stand in line with the other losers has issues and lady you havesomer serious issues.

    No doubt you are a real hit with the Target – WallMart employees as well. Were you even aware of the above mentioned retailers employees current organization attempts to end this madness?

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