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How Do You Maintain Friendships as a Working Parent?

How Do You Maintain Friendships as a Working Parent?

For busy working parents, fitting in exercise, grocery shopping, and some “me” time can be tough. Finding time to reconnect with friends? That’s even more challenging. We asked our Family Room bloggers to share share how they maintain friendships while juggling busy schedules and the many to-dos of working parenthood.

How Busy Working Parents Can Maintain Friendships

“Commit to making plans in advance – checking the calendar and setting a date is so important to being able to keep in touch.” – Marisa

“I wish I could say it was easy! Just like many aspects of life, there has to be a concentrated effort. As a working parent, your weekends tend to fill up quickly, so, as Marisa mentioned, it may be necessary to plan events or get-togethers in advance. On the flip side, I try to remember that it doesn’t have to be anything fancy – a quick coffee chat can go a long way too. And I have to say that social media does help with continuity in my friendships. You can’t let it “replace” all communication, but it certainly supplements it.” – Melissa

Maintaining friends as a working parent

“A couple of years ago my husband and I added a “night off” for each of us to our weekly routine. We’re parents of three children, one of whom has special needs and one who is medically complex. Our children’s needs mean that we’re “on” 24/7, so giving each other the gift of time has been incredibly valuable. My guilty pleasure is going to the movies, and I often meet a friend for dinner as well.” – Jessie

“I’ll be honest: mostly I don’t – our schedules are just so hard to match up. But I do meet my best friend for lunch during the work week.” – Emily

Mom Facebook groups… it’s a great support system even if most are “virtual friends”. One of the groups for me is local, and I have found mom’s with toddlers to hang out with on it. You have to remember to carve out time for yourself, sure you’re a mom, employee, wife, cook, house-cleaner, chauffeur, etc. but your also an individual. You need to make time for yourself, even if it is to go to Costco with a friend (if you ask me errands are always better with an iced coffee and someone to chat with).” – Aili

How about you, how do you find time for friends as a working parent?

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